Friday, 6 June 2014

Swaddle blankets Wish List

This week it's all about "Swaddling blankets" (max budget £12.49). I thought it is more of an old- fashioned trend to swaddle baby, apparently not as there are lots of swaddling blankets online. Would you recommend swaddling and did you do it?

















                                                  Swaddle Wrap- Mamas & Papas £6

SwaddleMe Pink Wavy Stripe- Asda £9.94

Olive & Henri Swaddle Robe- BabiesRUs £9.99

Swaddle Me Cotton Knit Animal Print Small/Medium- BabiesRUs £5.99

Grobag Hetty Gro Swaddle Blanket- BabiesRUs £12.49

Summer Infant SwaddleMe- Mothercare £9.99


Disclaimer: I have a written consent from all brands mentioned to use above pictures.

Wednesday, 4 June 2014

What's in my hospital bag?!


As now I'm 37 weeks pregnant we have just few weeks left until we meet out little girl and my nerves started to kick in I thought it's definitely time to pack my hospital bag. 

Thanks to my mum who came to see us in April I have less washing and ironing to do, I actually didn't want to do anything back in April but now I'm very grateful that mum insisted in helping me.

I have browsed different website, forums, blogs with checklists, some of them were more helpful than others, but none of them had quantity of the items I was after. I decided to wait till my next appointment with the midwife (at that time I was around 30 weeks). Few weeks later ( it was a very long wait) she finally gave me the checklist of things I need to bring into hospital. 

Most of the clothing bits and pieces we already had and some of the essential ones for before and after labour we were kindly provided by Mamabloom, they sent me their essentials kit (£27.99): bed mats (pack of 5), maternity towels (pack of 10), disposable briefs (pack of 5), maternity towels (pack of 48), breast pads (pack of 80), ultra thin maternity towels (pack of 12), ultra slim breast pads (pack of 50).

I made few adjustments to the list in red plus a bag for my husband is our improvisation as I thought that he is involved in this as much as I am. 


Mum
  • 2 nighties 1 nightie for giving birth, 1 nightie for breastfeeding after birth, 1 vest for pool birth
  • 2 feeding bras/good support bra 2 black seamless bras
  • toiletries sample packs of shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, toothbrush, small soap bar, bath sponge
  • dressing gown & slippers long cardigan, disposable slippers and flip flops
  • maternity sanitary towels (2 packs) 20 pads
  • paper pants are useful of large pants 4 pairs of full briefs
  • money for TV/ phone machine
  • flannels wet wipes
  • socks 2 pairs
  • lip salve
  • breast pads (15-20 for few days of stay) I'm planning to stay for 1 night so 5 pairs
  • hair band
  • drinks or snacks
  • plain base/baby oil for massage
  • big towel
  • my own pillow
  • my own birthing ball in case hospital ones are all in use
  • t-shirt and joggers to wear in hospital
  • intimate wipes
  • paracetamol
  • make up
  • phone/phone charger

Baby
  • disposable nappies (at least 12)
  • cotton wool (pleats)
  • 6 Babygro suits 3 in newborn size, 3 in 0-3 months size
  • 6 Vests 3 in newborn size, 3 in 0-3 months size
  • 2 hats
  • Scratch mittens 1 pair
  • cardingan
  • shawl or similar warm outer clothing for going home in blanket
  • muslin cloths/bibs I will be using 2-3 small towels instead
  • socks

Dad
  • t-shirt
  • deodorant/spray
  • drinks/snacks
  • sample pack of toothpaste/toothbrush
  • pants/socks

It seems that my list is even longer than baby's. Do you think I need to get rid off some things or should I add something extra?!

Monday, 2 June 2014

Book review: Breastfeeding made easy by Carlos Gonzalez


I guess nothing in the world can prepare you for something you have never experienced until you actually try it yourself. As I intend to breastfeed I was delighted to know that I have been picked to review "Breastfeeding made easy" book by Carlos Gonzalez (£11.99)- a pediatrician, father of 3 and a breastfeeding supporter. 

He tackles many real life questions from how to get started through to solids and going back to work.  He also covers treating illness, how to succeed in difficult circumstances and the importance of good support and how to access it.  

In his characteristic friendly style, and by tackling head-on the real- life questions mothers have about breastfeeding, he explains:
  • How breastfeeding works, and why most mothers, with support, can do it if they want to
  • How myths and misinformation can derail mothers, and how to avoid this 
  • How to manage introducing solid foods, weaning from the breast, and going back to work 
  • The proven heath benefits of breastfeeding, for babies and their mothers 
  • How treating illness, in mother and baby, needn’t mean the end of breastfeeding 
  • How breastfeeding can succeed even in difficult circumstances 
  • The importance of good breastfeeding support, and how to access it. 
What I wanted to learn from the book: I was expecting for it to give me clues on how to breastfeed, positions, best time for breastfeeding and something that can make breastfeeding easy.

I must admit that after reading the First Chapter I thought that I won't carry on reading as it was too "heavy", it had a scientific feel to it which made it more difficult for me to "attach" to as a book. As I was determined to read the book I carried on with other chapters.
Carlos comes across as knowledgeable, reassuring and a supportive person, which I think is essential. He talks about breastfeeding on demand, that it can not only be what baby wants, but when mother wants it too (within reason).
Throughout the book he mentions the term "western mothers", and the fact that he doesn't approve of their approach to breastfeeding or the way they think e.g. "My milk is drying up, I must give him another bottle" or "Poor little thing, he was crying because he had a lot of gas". He says that breastfeeding on demand has always existed and scheduled feeds are a modern invention.

Carlos gives valuable advice in each chapter but due to the volume of information it makes it difficult to digest as some of us prefer a quick "dip" (for that you can use detailed content section) into the book for a quick answer or someone prefers more tables and illustrations.


Unfortunately for me as a first-time parent (to-be) none of the information properly sank in, therefore I would recommend this book, but for those parents who have time on their hands to read the book and to dig in information, for second, third..time parents who already know what to do but looking for an alternative view.

DISCLAIMER: I was sent the above item for the purposes of this review. All thoughts and opinion are my own.