Last Friday evening we decided to change our routine slightly and not to go to the swimming pool, we thought that it would be nice to mix up our plans this weekend and we were planning to go to park on Saturday (which we did) and to the pool on Sunday (which never happened).
On
Saturday after park we came home, were preparing to relax and watch
TV when heard someone knocking on our back door, which normally never
happens as our family and friends use front door only.
It
was our next door neighbour asking to move our car as the van (I
guess their mate) couldn't get through her car and my husband's car.
Well she didn't explain that I knew it as when we parked we saw the van at the back of our garden, she just demanded to
move the car.
Cutting
long story short, I had to go outside as I heard her shouting at my
husband over car parking, and few seconds later her partner ran
towards them not to take park in the conversation but to make things
worse, to assault my husband...These few minutes of my life flew so
quick, I don't remember much as I was in total shock, but I remember
her angry face, how she was running towards my husband and me
shouting "Stop, stop".
That
Saturday evening we spent in police station, and Sunday in A&E to
note injuries from the accident. That was our last weekend in the
house where we spent last 3 years, that was the weekend of horror,
stress, tears.
We
couldn't bare staying in this house any longer, we couldn't stay
there knowing that next door to us live bullies, we couldn't be safe
there.
On
Sunday we moved in with in laws, I do appreciate their support and
help but it's just not enough space for all of us here especially
with a baby due this Friday.
On
Monday I woke up around 3 am as all I could dream of was uncertainty
we have, our baby arriving in the messiest time of our lives, us
sharing the small house between 5 people, us not having our own
corner. I just couldn't stop crying, the only thing I was wishing for
was our baby being overdue. We needed, we had to search for our own
house before she arrives.
But I
think luck is on our side this week (fingers crossed), we have found
one place available immediately, it is much smaller than our previous
house but it means we can move in within next week, we might have our
own nest! I can't express how positive I feel at the moment knowing
that baby will be safe, we will be safe, no more putting up with
neighbours or sharing place between 2 households.
It
is such a relief! Please wish us luck and keep fingers crossed for us
and our future!
